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Hello, just looking for some feedback please. I am 35 years old, 35 weeks pregnant with my first child. Been with my BF for monster beats outlet 5 years. BF has a 12 year old son from a previous marriage. BF works all day and his son hangs around the house all day, leaving dishes and dirty clothes everywhere, waiting for me to pick up after him, I do his laundry and fold it, then put it in his room for him to put away. Clean laundry still sitting in a pile days later. He blasts music while I'm trying to rest and I have to repeatedly tell him to turn it down. Today I told BF that This is my 1st and probably only pregnancy and that I don't feel it is my duty at 35 weeks pregnant to have to deal with this kid. I suggested that maybe he can go back to his Mothers for the rest of my pregnancy, so I can have some peace and quiet. BF starts yelling at me that I am a horrible person, and how dare I don't want his son around, and that it is his kids vacation and he will stay here whether I like it or not. It is likely he will pick his son (yes, his son) over you if you give him an ultimatum based on biology. Seems to me he doesn't believe he has to be with a woman to be a good father.

Honestly set up a chore chart with an allowance schedule. Do the chores, get some weekly cash and you may find the boy a bit more agreeable to help around the house. Also gift the boy with a pair of kick ass wireless headphones. Let him know that we all have to make some changes with the baby coming but that you know he loves his music so here's a compromise so everyone can be happy sharing a space.

You knew this man had accepted this child as his own with no blood ties. To him this IS his son and his first born child. If it bothered you so much you shouldn't have been with him or had a child with him.

FYI his son probably knows exactly what you think of him and his lack of biology.

I'm now walking away now. Seriously I'm pretty sure you are one Monster Beats of my dad's relatives. They are all obsessed with blood ties too.

Thanks for your replies. Lesson learned I guess. MOST 12 year olds I know are not that responsible and can be careless. If he wants something expensive again, make him earn it. Give him a way to be responsible. And most 12 years old I have known don't really have common sense. They are still children and need guidance, correction and discipline. Since he is your BF's son, he needs to take that active role in it, but his son does need to respect you as well since he is living in your house. If you have any concerns about your own health or the health of your child, you should always consult with a physician or other healthcare professional. Please review the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use before using this site. Your use of the site indicates your agreement to be bound by the Terms of Use.



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